How to get a girl to like you

[V-Opolis]

You sound like a nice guy, and when I say that I mean a wuss. Go up to her, tell her that ya want to date her, **** yeah. I remember I was like this, and then we stopped hanging out cause I never had the balls to ask her out, ***** you do that and you do that good mmkay? Now I regret it everyday because no other girl can be like her in terms of personality and beauty.
Either way you idiots, your suppose to come up to the girl not them up to you.

does it ****in matter? womens rights are here for a reason...

In 1 year alot can change you know. When I was at high school hardly any girls looked at me, now alot of people recognize me and got tons of girls that would want to date me. That could happen to you to you know. I'm only 18 years old and this suddenly happened in just 1 year.

supposedly i have the sophomore girls wet their pants with excitement when they see me... we should get married cuz were alike.../sarcasm

This is a silly thread :P. If I were in your position I'd become a really close friend of hers first, but I'm not one to hit on women (or even men to be honest :c) so I suppose I havn't any decent advice to offer. Listen to Oisty! ^.^~

when you become close friends you get teh friend zone... you gotta do it before you become close friends... if you do it, do it in a flirty friends way, dont be the guy she goes to for problems, be the friend she goes to for fun, that way you dont get friend zoned.

[Wordsmith]

I followeded all these eazy steps and i have 2 gurlfrends u should try it 2!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!PLZZZZZZZZZ

[SnOwBunZz]

*cough*600+hoursofWoW*cough*

Try again.

Who else thinks this thread turned into a spamthread?

[DemonKnight]

I myself have tried the things you're all telling him to do, never worked for me...I'll be 33 this summer and never dated, never kissed, never had -- well without a girlfriend the last thing is not possible -- and am still single. Women have just never wanted me as a friend or more. Still like women, however as of January 1st after 22 years of being turned down I've stopped actively and passively looking as it's useless.

Wow thats gotta suck, no girl? Geez

[Attila]

In 1 year alot can change you know. When I was at high school hardly any girls looked at me, now alot of people recognize me and got tons of girls that would want to date me. That could happen to you to you know. I'm only 18 years old and this suddenly happened in just 1 year.

Actually nothing, or very little can happen in a year. Yes, you may become that new toy everybody wants to play with, but how long it will last is questionable. Stable and relationship filled with good things take years to develop, everything else is a date or a pathetic attempt at feeling "special".

And I'm same as mlauzon, and I no longer care. I've lost everything when I came to this damn country, might as well do what everybody does. Hoard money and be selfish.

[seroson]

When ever i'm in love with a girl it's always because she likes the same video games and music as me.


Be a man and ask her out.

[Norrin Radd]

there is this nice girl at my school who i'm in love with,
We have everything in common Music,Video Games everything
One question how can i tell if she likes me back and if no how to get her to like me?
Thanks,
Valcry

You're destined to be a friend and nothing more.

Give up.

Girls don't go for guys who it'd make sense to go for.

[Deimos]

I myself have tried the things you're all telling him to do, never worked for me...I'll be 33 this summer and never dated, never kissed, never had -- well without a girlfriend the last thing is not possible -- and am still single. Women have just never wanted me as a friend or more. Still like women, however as of January 1st after 22 years of being turned down I've stopped actively and passively looking as it's useless.

holy shit dude thats one of the most depressing things ive read all day.

the pitch black recesses of my heart just opened a fraction for you man.

[Ithian]

OP - there's no way to 'get' them to like you. Just be nice, be yourself and try to have fun. If you have a fun date with them, ask for another and just slowly get to know them. Be honest, but dont' blab on about your problems. Don't just agree with what they say, but if you do agree try to add on or change it into another type of topic... keep it interesting. Don't move too fast, but if you think they want a kiss or something, just try. It's easier to say sorry than to try and make up for the missed opportunity.

[Gaika]

You're destined to be a friend and nothing more.

Give up.

Girls don't go for guys who it'd make sense to go for.

If I recall, he was asking for help, not for negative put-downs.

[Gaika]

I'm not targetting this at you. The whole point of my previous posts were to depict that the OP was NOT looking for negative and emotionally lowering comments.

[Norrin Radd]

If I recall, he was asking for help, not for negative put-downs.

Then it's mighty lucky I didn't give him a put-down, isn't it?

He asked how to get a girl to like you, and generally you can't. Let's assume the opposite, though; they have everything in common and it'd make perfect sense for them to be together it seems, so what is the most likely scenario?

Him being seen as a friend and nothing more, we both know this to be true.

If you spend too long in friendship with a girl, they stop seeing you as someone to date generally.

As for your "Never give up!" mentality, it's ridiculous. I'm all for "Give it a shot no matter what happens.", but that's a one time deal. You can be proud you tried, even if you fail (Sometimes). However, you know the saying:

Winners never quit, quitters never win, but those who never win and never quit are stupid.

[`doll]

Tell her you like her and see if she likes you or not.
Can't force her or "get a girl to like you" so you might as well be upfront and find out if she does or not. Or you're just gonna get yourself led on.
OR you're going to try really hard to "get her to like you" then realize she always has in the first place, and you've been wasting your time.

[Justsin]

How do i get a girl to like me?

I stop being a post ***** on OnRPG and get out of the house. I'm still waiting.

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Just say you like her... Seriously. If you don't then you are just going to wonder for a few years.

[Groteske]

Ask her if she's feeling you. If she says "Get out of my face!" then she doesn't feel you, but if she says "Damn boy you so fine." then wow she wants you bad.

You can't force a girl to like you.... But if she is a **** then perhaps act like you have money.

[Norrin Radd]

Tell her you like her and see if she likes you or not.
Can't force her or "get a girl to like you" so you might as well be upfront and find out if she does or not. Or you're just gonna get yourself led on.
OR you're going to try really hard to "get her to like you" then realize she always has in the first place, and you've been wasting your time.

Therein lies the problem of the dishonest girl.

Some girls don't tell a guy how they feel because they don't wanna hurt feelings, and it does nothing but cause trouble. Just gotta hope she isn't one of those.

[`doll]

Therein lies the problem of the dishonest girl.

Some girls don't tell a guy how they feel because they don't wanna hurt feelings, and it does nothing but cause trouble. Just gotta hope she isn't one of those.

Well if she acts weird or sort of escapes the question, that's a hint that she's at least not willing to turn you two into anything.

[Norrin Radd]

Well if she acts weird or sort of escapes the question, that's a hint that she's at least not willing to turn you two into anything.

Done this sort of thing before, have we, Doll? Hehe.

[MageMoa]

It's not hard.. Undress and let her judge!