This is why I hate Shy Girls

[KniteOps]

Nero saw the relationship the way he saw the relationship. Treating him like an asshole won't really enable you powers to clarify parts of his story that you find particularly dubious. I don't think that using such tactics will cause Nero to go through a pivotal life changing moment and cause him to metamorphose into the shy type of human-being who is scared of internet forum boards because of the big bad jerks dominating it. After all, you need to have a bit of ego yourself to barge into a thread and state that the OP's story is full of shit and that he should apologize for spinning tall tales out of nothing. I personally enjoy posts from someone with a sense of confidence.

So he didn't get the girl the first time around. But that doesn't always mean that things won't work out in the end. And even though I found parts of the story a bit interesting, Nero in fact tried to separate his own opinions from the actual events that happened. I honestly wouldn't have commented if Nero wasn't being gang-***** by the Onrpg Greeting Community.

[gratscorpio]

eh you saw what you thought was interest
you made a move
you were wrong
welcome to the 9/10 times that happens

give it a second try maybe you'll get the 1/10, or maybe she really just isnt into you, in that case hit on her friends and repeat on step one (or if your lucky her friends are slutty and are actually in the 9/10 times gonan happen bracket)

scorpio

[mazul]

As people mentioned earlier, it seems like you weren't her first choice. That doesn't mean that it has to remain that way forever, but for now she has someone else she likes better.

Sure, she is likely attracted to you, but since she has enough dignity to realize she can only have one boyfriend, she will not take you.

Perhaps her problem in the past with boyfriends is that she felt too "restricted". Some people don't really like to just sticking to one person and thus dislike the restriction relationships give.

Edit: Specially this "not being first choice" problem is what causes so much drama and lies. It is not something many people have the courage to say straight out. It gets very complicated when the first choice is not available but not quite impossible.

Take my story for instance, my first choice "A" was unavailable for quite some time. We had a special connection but a relationship was not quite possible back then. Since I didn't know if I would ever get her, I tried to move on. So I entered a relationship with a female "B" for some months. It was a relationship that I didn't know how long time it would last. Sure "B" was nice, witty and pretty but somewhere down inside me I knew that if "A" ever was available I would not be sure if I would stay with "B".

After a while I saw the oppurtunity to get into a relationship with "A". That's when I slowly started to leave the "B". In the end, I took my responsability and officially ended my relationship with "B". "B" cried and I really felt bad that I put her through this. However, if I had stayed with her, I would always ask me "What if?". I simply felt I had to take my chances with "A".

"A" and I have been together for over a year now. "B" has moved on. "B" doesn't speak to me anymore, which is understandeble due to the way I treated her.

[Nero666]

Well thanks for others sharing there stories and all so thanks all.

And to everyone giving me negative comments well I'm sorry I cant fully explain the details so keep attempting to bite my head off its not gonna work, you morons probably get nervous when a girl looks at you, that is when you go outside.

I guess I should change the title a little because yeah not all shy girls are like this, but someone posted eallier in thread

Girls here act all shy and lead you on, then when you make a move they're like "LOL SRY I ONRY SEE U AS A FREN"

That is true, I must of got played along and now this other douche which is obviously she lusts for him more, so she used me for the time being so she could get that love feeling back I dunno, or make the douche jealouse. Either way we did have something but now because she dont know what she wants "Which is common for lot of women lol" I am stuck in middle.

Right now I have 3 choices.

1. Get over her
2. Dont give up, because she is an awesome person and have like evrything in common.
3. Punch the douche in the nose and feel better.

[Paladin Catling]

Omg. . . all of you are soooooooooooo foolish!

You want to get a girl? This is -the- way to get a girl to be all over you:

Pick up a sword! Put on a helmet! Equip a shield! Go out and hunt! Slay the dragon! Get the girl! Become king!

[Nero666]

Omg. . . all of you are soooooooooooo foolish!

You want to get a girl? This is -the- way to get a girl to be all over you:

Pick up a sword! Put on a helmet! Equip a shield! Go out and hunt! Slay the dragon! Get the girl! Become king!

omg lmao xD!

[Wicked315]

Omg. . . all of you are soooooooooooo foolish!

You want to get a girl? This is -the- way to get a girl to be all over you:

Pick up a sword! Put on a helmet! Equip a shield! Go out and hunt! Slay the dragon! Get the girl! Become king!

Not true.

Link has been doing this for years. He never gets Zelda.

This is what you REALLY do

Get a job as a plumber, wait until a dinosaur/turtle combo kidnaps the girl you love, invade his castle. Defeat him in combat with nothing but your feet and possibly a hammer. Save her. Works every time

[EmceeJIVE]

Damn I hate a shy *****?
Don't you hate a shy *****?
Yeah I ate a shy *****.

[Bad Hamster]

I disagree! Shy girls aren't sluts. I wish I could meet one that I had a thing with. You know they won't cheat on you, be obsessed with sex or whatsoever. Innocent/shy girls are just the cutest in my oppinion.

[maoc389]

I disagree! Shy girls aren't sluts. I wish I could meet one that I had a thing with. You know they won't cheat on you, be obsessed with sex or whatsoever. Innocent/shy girls are just the cutest in my oppinion.

I disagree. Almost every one of the college sluts i met said they were "shy in middle school". So yes, shy girls are sluts.

And just because they're shy, it doesn't mean they don't have the same thoughts that the rest of us do.



But i do agree their the cutest. The best is when you get to know a shy girl and realize she's not shy at all... around you.

[vamp88]

I disagree! Shy girls aren't sluts. I wish I could meet one that I had a thing with. You know they won't cheat on you, be obsessed with sex or whatsoever. Innocent/shy girls are just the cutest in my oppinion.

You cant make such a bold statement. It isnt a fact that all shy girls arent sluts. They might constantly be thinking about sex, but are obviously too shy to make a move or share their thoughts with others. There have been shy girls who turn out to be freaks and go down the skanky path of the dark side once they get a taste of sex. On a side note, EVERYONE in every category is capable of cheating and there have been at least one in EVERY category (nerdy, shy, emo, ect) to cheat. I think you might need to experience the world outside of what you see on the internet and tv/movies to understand how girls actually are.

I disagree. Almost every one of the college sluts i met said they were "shy in middle school". So yes, shy girls are sluts.

And there are so many of those in college =) haha.

[Bad Hamster]

You cant make such a bold statement. It isnt a fact that all shy girls arent sluts. They might constantly be thinking about sex, but are obviously too shy to make a move or share their thoughts with others. There have been shy girls who turn out to be freaks and go down the skanky path of the dark side once they get a taste of sex. On a side note, EVERYONE in every category is capable of cheating and there have been at least one in EVERY category (nerdy, shy, emo, ect) to cheat. I think you might need to experience the world outside of what you see on the internet and tv/movies to understand how girls actually are.



And there are so many of those in college =) haha.

I know how they are...
Never had a shy girl though.
I know most girls get sort of addicted to it once they had sex, I know...
One of my eyes was like this ' As soon she wasn't a virgin anymore with me she wanted like 2-3times a day.....

I stated my own opinion about shy girls, no need to go around saying bullshit like 'I think you might need to experience the world outside of what you see on the internet and tv/movies to understand how girls actually are.' A real shy girl won't cheat, just simple for the reason she is to shy to make the first move and most girls hate players. So there won't really be a threat of a guy around.

[Ronin]

I think that the majority of those girls are neither sluts, nor skanks, but they gather enough social intelligence on the way to see that there is nothing else than superficial things to indulge with, with guys who have nothing to offer anyways.

Then the auto pilot takes over and nothing that happens will mean anything to her, nor will it tell you something about her, besides what she thinks of you, as you will be gone the day you are inconveniencing her one bit more than you can offer her convenience.

[Neutral]

butthurt more?

this is what i hate about onrpg, every other thread is a ****ing story about some emo's shitty day (no offense)

[V-Opolis]

butthurt more?

this is what i hate about onrpg, every other thread is a ****ing story about some emo's shitty day (no offense)

then what is Onrpg suppose to be?

[hobosexual]

you morons probably get nervous when a girl looks at you, that is when you go outside.

This is why people are bashing you instead of helping you.

You aren't as cool as you think you are bro.

[Vaxxarius]

I think you need to **** a chick, go ahead be a full on ******.

Oh how I love always sunny xD

[hobosexual]

I'll take the milk steak, boiled over-hard, and a side of your finest jelly beans, raw.

[hobolord]

she doesn't like you
get over it
you ain't the stud you think you are

[Nero666]

I'll take the milk steak, boiled over-hard, and a side of your finest jelly beans, raw.

Oi, Duskull I only said what I said to point something out, I got bashed before saying anything offensive, its all back to normal anyway, except that other dude saying something about shitty emo day.
You can tlel he dont go out much, living by labels.

Sorry just had to point that out.

you sure WE had something, or YOU had something? figure that out and youll find an answer quick that way.

and at 3. i can almost promise you if this is a shy, timid girl and you punch this kid, she will not talk to you,ever. whores who want strong manly men who fight all the time usually arnt the shy ones.

what does it even solve? hurt someone else to make yourself feel better cuz a girl didnt pick you? thats like suicide over a girl.... please use your ****in head and think straight, i know its hard when you like a girl, but damn, try a LITTLE.

and if it makes you feel better, i got stood up Thursday night....be grateful the chick at least told you how she felt.

We obviously had something thats how we met and the way things evolved, trust if we didn't I wouldn't even be bothered as it would of OBVIOUSLY never worked.

But its not like that, I am stuck in middle of all this drama...

she doesn't like you
get over it
you ain't the stud you think you are

I love your pointless comment, you dont know anything and since when did I say i ws a stud? serious

[vamp88]

I know how they are...
Never had a shy girl though.
I know most girls get sort of addicted to it once they had sex, I know...
One of my eyes was like this ' As soon she wasn't a virgin anymore with me she wanted like 2-3times a day.....

I stated my own opinion about shy girls, no need to go around saying bullshit like 'I think you might need to experience the world outside of what you see on the internet and tv/movies to understand how girls actually are.' A real shy girl won't cheat, just simple for the reason she is to shy to make the first move and most girls hate players. So there won't really be a threat of a guy around.

I didnt mean to offend you. I am not here trying to change your opinion or say it isnt important, but not all shy girls are faithful. Shy girls may not make the first move but in most cases they will go along with something if they are interested and someone else makes the first move. If youre going out with a shy girl, she no longer has any reason to be super shy seeing as she already has a man giving her attention and she becomes use to it.The boyfriend may not be her first choice, but her "only" choice since hes the only one whose shown an interest. If somebody else who is better looking, a sweet talker, or someone she actually likes more than her current boyfriend then she WILL cheat. Ive seen it COUNTLESS times.

Hmm girls might not like "players", but players, pimps, man whores, or whatever you wanna call it DO NOT go around telling girls they are trying to get with what they do. That is not how you play the game unfortunately. In high school for instance, i had 5-8 girls on check on any given day. I did not have all the girls i use to mess around with at my school, thats how you cause problems and ruin your chances. You space the girls out and with girls who do not know any of the other girls your talking to. And just an FYI, there have been lots of girls who have been told what i do and what i have done and they didnt seem to care. As long as a girl thinks that the "player" or whatever name you want to give them isnt going to hurt them then theyll go along with it, some girls just dont care all together and want to have fun.

[Norrin Radd]

We obviously had something thats how we met and the way things evolved, trust if we didn't I wouldn't even be bothered as it would of OBVIOUSLY never worked.

This just sounds like the way you've decided it is.

It doesn't sound like there was anything there at all, and it seems like you interpreted her actions incorrectly. Things didn't "evolve" did they? You started interpreting her signals (This can be extremely hard, I'll give you that) and then she knocked you back.

She's told you outright that she doesn't like you in that way. Not JUST that she isn't ready right now, but that you are not a male she wishes to indulge in.

I could be entirely wrong, but I think you saw her attitude as alluding to something you wanted to happen, and ran with it. So obviously it doesn't make sense to YOU that she denied you, because to YOU she wanted you. To her, she didn't.

I think you just need to accept it and move on.

[Princessdoll]

the story he shared is on his side... maybe if we ask the side of the girl then all of us will know the truth lol! xD

Frankly just get over with and find another one more suited for you..

[Elegance]

I see what your saying and your right in a sense. But Imma be as clear as I can dude

Its just lets say if she wasn't intrested right;
1. Why would this 7 second eye contact thing happen
2. her and her friends hanging outside all my classes then she waved at me etc lmao. Then carried on hanging outside for like 2 more days.
3. I got her number, twice actually
4. The more we hung out the more interaction there was
5. her and her friends say they talk about me a lot.
6. I was with her all the time, and was close to taking her out on date but then this happened.

Do you see what I mean? I mean yes she never said *I LIKE YOU*, But during the process of me trying to get the answer, I was like "Are you liking anyone at the moment then?" She said yeah this guy for 1+ year. But I thought to myself, ok well whatever, its nothing besides were getting along great.

Meaning she has liked this guy for over a year, and all of a sudden he shows intrest because last friday they were together and all. THEN thats when things started turning weird she was acting diffrent, hence the whole reason we got into argument. You see what I mean?

If she didn't like me, well she wouldn't be so open to me and tell me all the problems she had in past and get all emotional as well as the things i have said.

So thats the picture right.

She liked me, but liked this other guy more, I mean I only known her for 2 weeks, but thats whats funny how all of a sudden he is showing intrest after 1+ year.
That is why he is a douche and why I wanna smack him, I dunno wtf people in college/relationships play at these days but this aint normal.

So If she didn't like me, I got played to give her that love feeling back for this dude, or just to make him jealous?

If she does like me, she didn't want to go out with either of us because she can't decide and commit to her emotions yet, so stick as friends, so all 3 of us are single, which makes more sense!

SO THERE! THAT IS BASICALLY THE WHOLE STORY BACKGROUND EVERYTHING.
So that is the reason how I know she liked me, I mean maybe in time as its only been 2 weeks things will be diffrent, for now though I will give her time and her space because I did come on to pushy.

I actually feel better know after going through it again with myself, seems more clear.

Whatever happens, its all about moving forward with time...so yeah thats everything man.

Those 6 things make guys think you're interested? ._.;
To 1, I accidentaly stare at people some of the time, usually when I'm zoning out in their direction. >_<
To 2, Waving is just nice to do when you see someone familiar. When I'm with my friends right after a class and I see someone I remember, I wave because I don't remember their name or something.
To 3, I don't know why everyone thinks a phone number means romantic interest. x_x I know I give my number because I want to stay in contact with you outside of class, not really that I like them that way.
4 is pretty expected.
5, Talk about you a lot, isn't always a good thing.. There are a few people I talk about to my friends, and we have a laugh about things that happen. Some good, most bad or embarrassing. ._.

Not to shoot you down or anything, it's just that you might be misinterpreting things girls do. A lot of the time I'm nicer to someone in person because I don't want to hurt any feelings or get on anyone's bad side. It's not really leading you on, just being polite. ._.

[Ronin]

Hmmm, you got her number twice?

What a curious arrangement.

(Imagine that happened with a guy; You'd be practically married to a dude.)

Sorry on not being able to take this serious, but you shouldn't either. Nor should you waste time analyzing all these experiences, as those do not change what the explicit unambiguous outcome was, not matter from what perspective you dissect them.

First you need to understand that fact. Only after that you can go on to try to figure out what actually happened.