This topic kind of confused me, so excuse me if this isn't the information you wanted.

Wurms a confusing game, the best source of information is the wiki - http://wurmonline.com/wiki/index.php?title=Main_Page

I'd pretty much refer to that if you need info on anything specific, and anything else I would go to the help channel (should be automatically open next to local tab) or ask your kingdom (/shout).

This thread also holds a bit of information (if you sift through all the hate posts) - http://www.onrpg.com/boards/140197.html

I don't play anymore but if you need help throw me a PM here or something.