So my cousins have been looking at my porn.

[Orpheus]

I just noticed in my Windows Media Player history certain videos that I haven't seen in like forever. I think they might have been using my laptop while I was away.

Should I ask them about it in a discreet way, or should I let it pass?

I mean, it's gay porn. So I'm guessing it can get a little bit uncomfortable for all of us.

[Neutral]

do they know that you are gay?

if yes: yell at them

if no: ignore it for now

[Necronax]

I had a similar situation and the way I felt with it was confront it head on. I was blamed when my parents went on themselves and saw what it was. Be direct and look them in the eye, in my case they didn't admit it but they didn't deny it either. They kind of shrugged it off and dimmed their voice until I just shutup....never again.

[MarchoftheBlackLions]

Depends on how old and how close you are to them.

If I knew it was only going to be a one time thing...I'd probably let it pass.



Also, inb4wincest.

[Orpheus]

Well, here's the thing that bothers me: it wasn't a single video, they actually saw 4 or 5.

I mean, if you are straight and find someone's gay porn, wouldn't you close the video and forget about it?

Anyway, they don't know I'm gay. I'm pretty certain they do now.

[Kanaju]

Be straight up about it.

"ya'll niggas' better not hate coz I like teh cockz."

[Mime Taxidermy]

How old are your cousins?

[Orpheus]

One's 22, the other is 20.

[Neutral]

One's 22, the other is 20.

how old are you?

[Lawliet1]

Why is your porn so easily accessible?

Also my cousin is gay and we all know it infact i awoke to find him looking at buff white men in underwear on my computer one night and i told him dont be lookin at that shit on my computer.

anyway your in an awkward situation...But you should confront them before they start to spread bad rumors about you.

[Orpheus]

I'm 22 and my porn isn't really accessible. I mean, it's not password protected or encrypted, but it's hidden in a random folder. It's almost as if they were actually looking for it. That or I left a trace somewhere. D:

[Useless]

Firstly, put a lock on your computer.
Second, ask them what the **** is going on with them.

[SahibX]

Be straight up about it.

"ya'll niggas' better not hate coz I like teh cockz."

DO this...epicness shall be witnessed

[Cingal]

Eh, just ask them about it, I mean, they must have known you'd find out.

Perhaps it's all planned, and he's on some other forum, asking a group of people if he should confront his cousin after finding gay porn on his laptop.

... It interests me to think about such things.

[Orpheus]

My guess is that they opened up 4 or 5 to make sure that all the porn was actually gay. Anyway, no harm no fowl, you should take advantage of the situation and start hitting on them.

Actually, one of them is quite ho---

WHAT, NO.

[MerkaMerka]

Just let it slide. Seriously if you want to keep a good relation with your cousin, ignore it. Not like it's giving you viruses.

[Bacn]

If I were you, I wouldn't do anything. But keep an eye on your porn from awhile. If you see your brother has been looking at it some more, it's probably a good idea to talk to him about it.


Awhile back my step-brother did the same thing(although he browsed the files on my computer using Firefox, for some baffling reason). Just be thankful that all you have to hide is gay porn.

[Orpheus]

If I were you, I wouldn't do anything. But keep an eye on your porn from awhile. If you see your brother has been looking at it some more, it's probably a good idea to talk to him about it.


Awhile back my step-brother did the same thing(although he browsed the files on my computer using Firefox, for some baffling reason). Just be thankful that all you have to hide is gay porn.

*Cousins.

And the bolded part is of interest to me.

[Bacn]

*Cousins.

And the bolded part is of interest to me.

Ah, my bad.

Also, might want to try underlining.

[zipykido]

According to this infographic, if you decide to get funky with them you can do so in like 2 states:

[Paladuck]

Just remember that it's probably way more awkward for your cousins than it is for you. I would just let it go.

[shadowsworn]

does anyone else find it funny that it's apparently way more socially acceptable in the US for first cousins to marry than it is for gays to marry

and by funny I mean *facepalm*

[cjammer]

We actually get along pretty well, but they have this tradition of using/touching/playing with my stuff, it's more of a lack of manners than being jerks, actually.

I could tell them not to touch my computer unless I'm in the room, without mentioning the "event".

The other thing is, I actually suspect one of my cousins to be gay. So, if he saw these videos while my other cousin was in the bathroom/kitchen or whatever, it would explain things.

First, you left yourself wide open for an incest based inuendo joke with the using/TOUCHING/playing thing.. But on a slightly serious(not really because this is funny as hell) note, who the hell cares? They found your gay-stash.. it's not like they found your coke or something(I have simular occurances in my one family) they either liked it and you can share like good family or they didn't and they will talk some shit for a while..

Once again that is funny as hell... and your cousins had to work to get it which is even better.

[Paladuck]

does anyone else find it funny that it's apparently way more socially acceptable in the US for first cousins to marry than it is for gays to marry

and by funny I mean *facepalm*

Well, the common justification for incest laws is that the babies come out deformed, but studies show that the chance of deformities in children of first cousins is about the same as the chance for unrelated individuals. So like gay marriage, the only real objections are moral.

[MerkaMerka]

*Cousins.

And the bolded part is of interest to me.

He's talking about his probably mad-stash of gay fetish furry porn.

Actually I know that's what he's talking about.