basically called her best friend gay (which i didnt mean to(its a long story lol) and he isnt really gay) and she got mad and doesn't want my appology etc. Also the kid is kindah a stalker to her. She has known him for 4-5 years and he has asked her out like 9+ times and a few days ago he told her that he still liked he like that after the other girl he was trying to get with turned him down etc.etc.etc.
I'm gonna guess you insulted him out of insecurity.
Talk to her, tell her that you're not comfortable having someone so interested in a relationship with her, being that close to her.
If she thinks everything's okay, you need to get used to it and trust her.
If she agrees, problem solved.