Aren't you like 14? Jesus. . go play some pokemon.
Reputation: 43Neurosis sure, but insecurity? Do you ride the short bus or something? I KID! I'm really not trying to start a flame war with a middle schooler.
Ok I'll grant you the premise that no one in your grade knows the meaning of these two words. That doesn't mean that they can't sense something is off, the way you carry yourself makes a huge difference. Walk tall.
One day, when you're in your mid twenties or possibly later, you'll look back on all the girl drama you had in your teens and do a super facepalm.
I know I did.
Reputation: 1151Or just enjoy single life, because odds are time isn't an important factor here.
You shouldn't really be feeling the pressure to settle down, and have a girlfriend until you're in your late 20s. I mean...its cool if it happens before that, but if it doesn't, its not the end of the world man.
I was in the same boat as you just a week or two ago. I was all "omg, what am I going to do!? I need to find another girlfriend!"...but not really. You don't need to validate your existence through anyone but yourself.
Since my girlfriend left, I've had 3 girls over here, which I've always been close with (but never LIKE THAT with, ya know?)...out of the 3, one of them even...er...stayed for the night, and some of the next day...ya know? (its not what you're thinking...I couldn't have a one night stand situation...but hey, I certainly had fun!)
Play the field. Enjoy life.
If you find someone to be happy with, good. Don't bother going to look for it, because it sounds like that is your biggest problem.
Reputation: 31if your gay, do it. but dont force yourself into it. if you need to try it out, then try it out and see if you were just unaware of what you were.
If you turn out to be straight, then just work on telling yourself everyone is flawed and to try out different 'types'. Never know, your SO could be someone thats not your 'type'. Having to big a checklist can be detrimental to your relationship forming abilities.
insecurity is one of the biggest reasons relationships fail....so you need to make it matter.
also you have to fail to be successful. you will not be able t name one person who was successful in EVERYTHING and never failed. Failure weeds out the bad possibilities and leaves the better possibilities for later.
People who say they're "going gay/lesbian" because they have shitty taste in the opposite sex annoy me to no end.
If you keep getting into relationships with whores, stop dating whores.
If you have shitty taste in women, you'll probably have shitty taste in men. People need to stop blaming others for their poor choices.
Reputation: 1151
Reputation: 29The thread title should be renamed to "lolpre*****centgirls."
2 years later you won't even be worrying about this shit.