Who ****ed Up?

[blablabity]

So, I just started dating a new girl. Yesterday we decided to go to the park and hang out together, and then go to her house. Well I went and we walked to her house. On the way there she wouldn't even let me near her, let alone hold her hand. I met her parents who were very nice. We get into her room and she tells me:

1. She doesn't believe in love.
2. She eventually gets rid of all of her friends.
3. I'm NOT her friend.
4. She doesn't like dating.

After an awkward silence I left (which was awkward because I had to go by her parents, who now probably think I am an ***) and called my friend and we hung out. Later that night I texted her asking what I did wrong. She cried about how I don't "understand" her. I told her that nobody understands her because she wouldn't let anybody get close. I also called her immature. We broke up of course. My other friend thinks I ****ed up, but I disagree. I could have been nicer but still...

Sorry for the shitty sob story, but I needed opinions.

[nawrasz]

What the ****?

She didnt explain anything at all?


Obviously her fault, unless you did something dumb you forgot about =o

[RedWraithQueen]

You didn't mess up. If anything, you dodged a bullet there.
If you don't "understand" her, and she's not into all that stuff, then don't go through with it.

[Sandman53]

You are pretty well off. Any girl who is that emotionally wrecked isn't worth the time you would need to waste on her.

[nawrasz]

You are pretty well off. Any girl who is that emotionally wrecked isn't worth the time you would need to waste on her.

^

This is pretty much all the info you need.

[Orpheus]

So, I just started dating a new girl.

1. She doesn't like dating.

I don't understand.

[blablabity]

I don't understand.

Exactly my thoughts...

[Neil]

She probably just didn't like you and couldn't find a way to tell you.

[Orpheus]

She probably just didn't like you and couldn't find a way to tell you.

So she decided to come up as some sort of emotional train wreck? Her plan, not so good.

[Neil]

So she decided to come up as some sort of emotional train wreck? Her plan, not so good.

Sounds like something I would do to be honest.

[Krivik]

I don't think that you ****ed up.

[Oisterman]

Some *****es be crazy.

Thats all you need to know. Be glad you got outta there when you did. If shes already playing these games with you, its destined to be a rocky road.

Run. Run like the wind.

[H4wkeye]

It is obviously NOT your fault. It's her fault for being all *****y. That's why she doesn't get no love. If you don't want a partner, then don't seek one, not like find one and then be *****y like that. Also, she seems like a freaky lunatic, so you're better without her next to you.

[TaikoxKashi]

*****es be crazy.

nuff said.

[V-Opolis]

So, I just started dating a new girl. Yesterday we decided to go to the park and hang out together, and then go to her house. Well I went and we walked to her house. On the way there she wouldn't even let me near her, let alone hold her hand. I met her parents who were very nice. We get into her room and she tells me:

1. She doesn't believe in love.
2. She eventually gets rid of all of her friends.
3. I'm NOT her friend.
4. She doesn't like dating.

After an awkward silence I left (which was awkward because I had to go by her parents, who now probably think I am an ***) and called my friend and we hung out. Later that night I texted her asking what I did wrong. She cried about how I don't "understand" her. I told her that nobody understands her because she wouldn't let anybody get close. I also called her immature. We broke up of course. My other friend thinks I ****ed up, but I disagree. I could have been nicer but still...

Sorry for the shitty sob story, but I needed opinions.

well considerin i dont have your entire side, it is her fault(from the info you gave). But you could have handled it better. it takes two to solve a problem. IF she doesnt feel you will listen then you havnt been as nice as you thought or she has a severe disorder she needs checked out. People are oblivious to themselves alot of the time. You may think you were bein nice but you could have come off as condescending or douchish.

but with throwing out the exaggerations people ALWAYS throw into situation to make themselves sound better, its not your fault.

and you guys come to conclusions way to damn fast, how do you know hes not leaving something out....

[blablabity]

I really didn't leave anything out. Just earlier she texted me saying she was sorry, I said I was sorry, too.

Worst part? We have a class together... Awkward silences will ensue.

[BadpcGuy]

1. She doesn't believe in love.
2. She eventually gets rid of all of her friends.
3. I'm NOT her friend.
4. She doesn't like dating.

Translation no sex you did a great job breaking it off.

[Abhorsen]

you were right. she sounds like a immature attention $%#@! who thinks the world revolves around her because beeing *posibly* spoiled by parrents lol

but thats just my opinion based on your post i dont know what else is going on so dont take me too serious and call her that lol

[Oisterman]

I really didn't leave anything out. Just earlier she texted me saying she was sorry, I said I was sorry, too.

Worst part? We have a class together... Awkward silences will ensue.

I hope SHE texted you first...you really had nothing to apologize for. But, it wasn't wrong to after she already had.

Anyway...maybe you could talk things out. I mean...I wouldn't bother...but if you were interested and feel its worth patching up, it sounds like maybe you could...I guess.

[MoonSoul]

Enigma is the bread and butter of some women, and I guess she'll stay one for awhile, too.

[MarchoftheBlackLions]

Sounds like she's a bit self-centered and wanting to stir up some "O, woe is me" drama.

Tell here that you're really a vampire.

That's what she was wanting to hear.