So i met this girl at a club yesterday. Had some fun and stuff and i got her number. Today i texted her. No reply. Should I call her or just forget about it? I feel that calling would make me look like i'm desperate.
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To call or not to call?
So i met this girl at a club yesterday. Had some fun and stuff and i got her number. Today i texted her. No reply. Should I call her or just forget about it? I feel that calling would make me look like i'm desperate.
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If she didn't reply to your text, she obviously has no interest in talking to you. So calling is not a good idea.
Just wait it out, or send her another text later.
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Was she drunk when she gave you her number?
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No lol. But she did get a little tipsy after a while.Originally Posted by Urahara
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Did you take advantage of her? if you didn't, that's probably the reason why she won't talk to you.
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So taking advantage of her is better? Wut?? That sounds totally wrong. And no,i didn't take advantage of her. She actually wanted to come see me again some time.Did you take advantage of her? if you didn't, that's probably the reason why she won't talk to you.
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Just call her
What can you lose, and if she wanted to see you again - there is no reason not to
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You got to remember, not everyone have texting.
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you should definitely call her maybe not the day after but the day after that for sure, that way you don't look to desperate but your also showing her you think the relationship can be something
also im sure most of the people in here saying dont call probably have never been given a girls number and the few that did started hyperventilating and sucked the paper along with the number down
also you will never know if you don't call her, i mean whats the worst that can happen if its not meant to be its not meant to be, not calling is just digging the whole and burying the possible relationship
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To the OP: Just call her, you have nothing to lose besides maybe some dignity
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Call her and if she answers say "Hey I gotta go lemme call you back", but don't call her back. That way she is left on a cliffhanger. Examples: Harry Potter 6, The Office Season 3, Hatchet?
If she doesn't answer, leave a polite message but use an incorrect name. So if her name is Sally, be like "Hey what's up? We met at the club last night and I just wanted to see what you were up to tonight, Kate. Hit a brother up while it is still clean". Instant success. She will be naturally driven to call you because of the wrong name, and the last part will make her wonder what she is missing out on.
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Wait a day or two first, then call.
She might just be slow at answering texts. However, there is also the odd chance that she either gave you the wrong number(either by mistake or on purpose), or that you wrote it down wrong by mistake, and so it would be best to call to be certain.
You got nothing to lose really. If you call and she doesn't answer and doesn't call back that means it's a no go. If she answers, then you take it from there.
No point in thinking beyond that.
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