I got a problem boys..

[Paladin Catling]

I remember saying to myself I would never make a personal thread on here, but whatever its the internet. Not a big deal.

Situation: So I got invited to this Halloween party, you dress up and all that. I was invited by this chick and I know there's gonna be drinking and such, but I aint a big drinker. To make it worse this would (will) be my first party. I know some of the people that will be there but I aint really friends with any of them. This problem takes the cake though: I aint never been really intimate with a women, I'm still a virgin. Don't get me wrong Ive kissed a girl, but I really dont think I want a drunk broad to be my first. So yeah I want to go, but im nervous as hell about what to expect. Im 18 and I figure I gotta live life, but yeah im just nervous hah.

Thanks fellas, its the internet I know but Im actually looking for some solid advice here.

~Necronax.

"with a woman" or "with women"

[Raiyne]

Give it a chance I guess, and if she's a disappointment then you can just leave.

Or you could try to find a sensible girl who seems cool and then ditch the party.

[hobolord]

You can party and not drink you know.

[Oisterman]

There are some girls you respect, and your goal (believe it or not) isn't "get them as drunk as possible and have sex with them".

Theres a girl I've been seeing who I actually care about and don't want to end up like that. We drink together all the time, so its hard to avoid.

If its someone you care about, explain "No, not right now. I'm sorry to disappoint you, but I respect you too much for that. Call me, we can do it right...dinner, a movie, etc." If shes worth your time for a relationship, she will understand.

If not, shiiiiiiit, tear it up bro. There are girls that are like that too. I used to feel bad about the whole "one night stand" stuff...but not so much anymore. She wants it, you wants it, go for it.

Just don't drink yourself ******ed. I drink (kinda) often, and I have friends come over that don't drink. They try to keep up, and end up dying on my couch at about 9:29. Nobody is gonna think you're a wuss if you're not pounding them down. Grab a drink, and sip it for as long as you want. Don't worry. Edit: Don't sip a beer though, get a mixed drink. Sipping a beer only makes for disgusting, warm beer.


Edit: Lol about the fights. You guys must party with some real assholes. I dunno about you guys, but theres nobody having that shit at my parties. One fight, you're out. Forever. I don't drink and burn to be stressed, I do it to relax and have fun with my buddies on a weekend. Fighting is stresssss. No stresssss.

[power_gamer_6]

Technically that's not a tip.

You've got fail on you.

Shut up, Norrin. What do you know about tipping? It's not even customary in Europe! You cheapasses.

[Xenonight2]

Bwahahahaha.

[Froob]

Your sig is so ****ing cool

[Xenonight2]

Wait, who's?

[Oisterman]

Wait, who's?

Obviously yours man. Look at those dogs go!

[Xenonight2]

They won't stop dancing until I get a free copy of Fallout New Vegas!

[$$$]

My signature is more Plankton.

[V-Opolis]

just walk in like you own the ****in place. make the party crazy. Play a game of pyramid 4 beers each side and see how you feel. go from there. if you dont drink, dont drink.

since my meds have kicked in, ive been yelling and goin crazier at parties. You just gotta go with the flow and **** your surroundings.

I finally figured out what my 3rd finger is for...people who judge.

Honestly drunk sex isnt that big a deal if you use protection. and you know the girl so im sure you know shes safe. its your choice but i say go with the flow and just take it. You may get a relationship outta it, you may get a **** outta it, or a friend, or nothing. And being a virgin and having the opportunity of getting laid is a stressful situation. You may think your going to do it wrong etc. just go with yalls chemistry and forget about being nervous.

Drunk people dont give a ****. you can just walk up to em and introduce yourself and youll have a convo start usually. People are there to SOCIALIZE and have FUN. so do both, cuz thats what everyone else is doing.

It's amazing how, in today's society, people look at you like a freak or a miracle if you aren't crazy about drinking.

I remember people used to say to me, "Wait...you don't smoke...or drink?", "Nah.", "You're...against drinking?", "No, I just don't enjoy alcoholic drinks or being drunk. I don't like thinking I have to drink a certain thing in a certain situation. I won't drink a beer just cos I'm in a bar. I'd rather drink something I'd drink, and enjoy, anywhere else."

This person replied, "Wow. That's amazing. You should be proud."

Baffled.

i dont see that your a freak if you dont drink at all? weres that from? Most people drink cuz it makes shit more fun, not cuz they have to.