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    Quote Originally Posted by Xenonight2 View Post
    No, it just lowers inhibitions and judgement centers in yr brain. You become more impulsive and can do things against yr better judgement.

    If you consider that uninhibited displays of feelings to be true feelings, then yes it does. I don't, though.
    I had a feeling it might be that, but does the fact that we have a history not change things? its not like we only met.

    I don't think so Hatashi, she she says she remembers my mate saying to her that they were best mates. Yet she can't remember me helping her and being there for her when she was crying (yeah she was crying don't know why though) How could you forget something like that yet remember something so small and meaningless?

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    Because she doesn't want to talk about it, or she honestly doesn't remember. I wouldn't press it.

    Maybe ask her out instead.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Xenonight2 View Post
    Because she doesn't want to talk about it, or she honestly doesn't remember. I wouldn't press it.

    Maybe ask her out instead.
    I'm not pressing it, she just told me she didn't remember anything so I refreshed her memory that was all I was talking to my friend about it and he doesn't believe she ''forgot'' either.

    That didn't go down to well last time I tried it, we used to be close but we rarely ever talk anymore. I honestly feel like a fool for chasing a girl who clearly doesn't want anything to do with me, I can't help how I feel about her though

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    You could try again one more time, with yr circumstances set it how you want it perfectly (not off-the-cuff).

    If she says no, there are millions of fish in the sea. And probably more women on land.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Xenonight2 View Post
    You could try again one more time, with yr circumstances set it how you want it perfectly (not off-the-cuff).

    If she says no, there are millions of fish in the sea. And probably more women on land.
    I'll just get shot down again, she'll make up some BS excuse again
    I know theres plenty more women out there but its hard to just forget about her, I tried already but I failed miserably

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    Yes and no. It depends on how drunk IMO.

    I remember this girl I've been interested in but wasn't so sure about came up to me at a party after a few beers. I talked with her being decently buzzed, and straight up said "we should do some shit sometime maybe if you want". That was me feeling the ability to share how I felt without being so worried about a response because I was drunk.

    Then, however, there are times when I'm past buzzed and "drunk" and I say all kinds of really crazy shit. A lot of the time I just say shit to get people going. I've had my mom tell me some crazy story I told her the night before when she came to get me so I wouldn't stumble home 2 miles drunk and not remember any of it and not have a single word of it be true.

    So, yes and no.

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    This is precisely why I don't drink. Well, one reason.

    I just know too much shit about too many people. Generally I can keep my misanthropic tendancies under wraps for the good of everyone, but if I'm drunk, the desire to cause shit just for the sake of it may come out.

    Damaging lives or reputations isn't something I'm about, unless pushed.

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    It lowers inhibitions, which can help some people open up or express themselves more easily, but at the same time to much drinking can affect judgment to the point where people say and do things they don't mean or wouldn't do normally as they don't like the consequences that would arise from such actions/words. I think after say 5 - 10 (large gap due to tolerances) drinks in fairly quick succession it's a good idea not to take people to seriously.

    She may be a very affectionate person in general, but due to constraints of society going around hugging people you like can be looked at weirdly/down on. Being drunk gives people an excuse to do certain things, whether people take advantage of that consciously or subconsciously or don't even know what they are doing, depends on the person.

    Does she wanna hug you normally? sure she probably does, but would she? that's a different story, she may not want to go where it leads.
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    She probably felt embarrassed and lied that she didn't remember.

    Anyways in my case, my "feelings/personalities" whether good or bad, amplify 100X. So I'm a super devil-may-care, reckless, obnoxious, joker, aggressive, loud, and its hard to shut me up.

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    It depends what kind of person you are, I basically stay the same when I'm drunk but I get a little more confident, which in turn makes me have a little more fun. My girlfriend is a terrible drunk who always ends up crying and falling out with me.

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    Either she doesn't remember or she wishes she didn't remember. In either case, that means you should leave it alone.

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    From past experiences with alcohol, after a couple drinks I become more...open. I don't have the usual shyness of stuff that holds me back. That's where "the feel good" buzz kicks in.

    Afterward you're just plain drunk and doing ******ed shit you wouldn't usually do. Drinking too much also makes me horny as hell, no idea why because I don't wanna have sex with random people for a night and quit it.

    TL;DR: Alcohol make you do crazy stuff, wanted or not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Xenonight2 View Post
    Norrin Radd: Got the dirt on e'erybody
    Real talk.

    Even you. Even that night where you and Cloud did terrible things with a banana boat and a fire extinguisher.

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