Girlfriend to Friends dilemma

[Gattsu]

Anyone having a clash between the two?
I ditched all my friends for my girlfriend, shes like my bestfriend and my actual guy friends were making me choose between her and them so i just chose her, lul.
Been with her for ages, I can talk to her about anything, have a LOT of fun with her and i can be myself more with her than the guys.

Besides, you can always count on your partner over your friends. When you need them most their most likely gonna be too busy to get you because their ****ing some ***** >_>

[Oisterman]

I almost made that mistake, then booted the ***** out the door.

Bros before hoes, you're making a horrible mistake.

[Gattsu]

Mistake? I should edit in somewhere that im engaged to this girl, been with her for years....

Is it really a mistake?

[birdman16]

what friends would make you choose :S!?

[Gattsu]

Exactly! This one guy who was suppose to be my bestfriend made me choose a lot between him or her.... jealous type i guess lul.
He ditched me tonight after i told him that i was with the mrs all day that's why i couldn't hang out with him.
Maybe he swings another way.

[Morpheusx]

if they make you chose they aint true friends but do you atleast make time for your friends? nobody should be around their gf all day its unhealthy go out spend some time with your bros i have been with my gf for 6years and we understand that we cant be around each other all the time we both make time for our friends

[Gattsu]

I use to make time for my bestfriend but not anymore, ill just make time for the ones i smoke and drink with, clubbing, etc.

[Morpheusx]

yeah 2-3times aweek i spend time with my friends its nice to get away from the gf for awhile and just have fun

[Wicked315]

I agree with you bro, I sort of left my friends in the dust for my girlfriend... but that's because I really enjoy being with her, and I can be myself with her, but I didn't have to choose, they aren't real friends if they are forcing you to pick, like.. shes your partner, they are your friends, there is a huge difference. They need to realize that, or need to just gtfo.

[Gattsu]

gtfo i say
the relationship i have with my girlfriend is like a best friend anyway ^^

[BadpcGuy]

It depends what the actual issue is your not giving enough detail.

Are you spending more time with your girlfriend then your friends.

Like is it one of those things like if they don't call you they'll never hear from you.

Friends can make mistakes to complete give up on him cause of that sounds silly.

Saying that he not your real friend is kind of silly you can say that for anything.

Things are not as black and white maybe try to talk it out a bit more.

Also how deep is your friendship if you really gonna throw it all away.

[TreyTrey12]

personally, i have few guy friends.most of my friends are females really, though i can't really hang out with them now since im tied down by a girl. but The only dudes i probably really kick it with is family, and thats my nephews jalyn and orlando.

[Ozaphel]

They don't sound like your friends if they make you choose.
Gotta be assertive, spend time with both at different times, or all hang out at the same time.

[poeticas]

Oh how naive you are.

i know that damn it zou dont need to point it out

[Oisterman]

IDK. Maybe your guys' friends aren't the same as my friends. I've known all of my friends for literally my entire life. We're tighter than family. I'd take a bullet for any one of them, and they would for me.

Girls come and go, but homies like mine are forever.

Maybe I'm just bitter, but if my friends rejected my girlfriend, I'd really have to step back and look at her, because she must be a real *****.

You asked our advice, thats mine. Take it or leave it, but for me my friends are worth their weight in gold.

[Darkhell153]

I think you just have a special case of "I chose the wrong friends but the right girlfriend"-itis.







it's fatal...

[poeticas]

Girls come and go, but homies like mine are forever.

omg oister i respect you more for this

[Oisterman]

why are you dating the crazy ones?

The crazy ones are the best in bed.

Fact.