Quote Originally Posted by olaph View Post
Everybody on the planet is shallow. As humans we naturally have preconceived preferences to who we are attracted to, who we keep as friends, etc.
Society also plays a role in this, but I think saying "some people are shallow" is bit of a cop out.
^this.

Guys are just shallow by genetics. It's a fact of life. I'm sure you can train yourself out of it, but its genetics and nature to see physical appearance first. Where still animals, and we still have basic reproductive instincts that you may not be aware of, that are always at play whether you think they are or not.

Quote Originally Posted by XGrave View Post
By shallow I mean looks alone. No actions or ideals just looks. Idk I guess I'm just disguested at the idea of people needing to look attractive or wanting someone solely based on looks
So what your saying is if you, personally, find a girl physically repulsive, but personality wise amazing, you'll still **** her?

There's some girls I don't find attractive at all, but some guys soil their pants at the sight of them. Sure, society tells you what you SHOULD find attractive, but its not always the case.


Like Cy-kill up there. I find that girl not attractive at all. Yet he does. Finding people unattractive doesn't mean someone is shallow. I'm not even sure if shallow exist. I think its just a word people made up to make themselves feel better, because 100% of people wont date 100% of the people. Sex is an integral part of relationships and if your not physically attracted to your partner that will make sexy time extremely difficult for you.

Even if someone bases a partner SOLELY on appearance, that's just their criteria. Find someone else if you can't accept that. There's someone who doesn't, go find them.