How shallow can people get?

[Ronin]

Im not sure what your talking about either....

no standards? so what your saying is if you have a vagina you should have like 1000 dicks ready at any point? Sure the women ultimately gets to choose, but not every guy will say yes to any girl that says "I suppose I'll choose you." I cant even follow your logic on this one.

In fact, if she wants you to she can get you to.

Guys will say "I turn down girls left and right".
It's self deception. In reality people report that 2-3 times as many people are interested into them over the number they report being interested in.
So there is a discrepancy that won't work out in reality. Guys aren't turning girls down (leaving aside insecurities and immaturity that might cause them to). Those girls actually never where into them from the start.

Also girls compete with each other rather than that they compete for guys (in general baseline behavior). Guys don't do that. In the end they face completely different situations.