
Originally Posted by
Ronin
In fact, if she wants you to she can get you to.
Guys will say "I turn down girls left and right".
It's self deception. In reality people report that 2-3 times as many people are interested into them over the number they report being interested in.
So there is a discrepancy that won't work out in reality. Guys aren't turning girls down (leaving aside insecurities and immaturity that might cause them to). Those girls actually never where into them from the start.
Also girls compete with each other rather than that they compete for guys (in general baseline behavior). Guys don't do that. In the end they face completely different situations.