Dude I think we are talking about different things.
I am not "sharing my wisdom" or something like that, because it isn't about wisdom for starters. You can believe me or not, but there are people whose job it is to find out if people are actually accurately judging their reality or not.
Turns out, people aren't.
That is why I do not really expect much to come out of you telling me what you believe is right from your experiences in the past, see? The whole point is that you don't know what really happened, just what you are making yourself remember.
To be frank and totally honest, the whole idea of dating is a mystery to me. It's a cultural thing and such things are really uncommon where I live.
However:
I take it it's a get to know opportunity, not an offer for sex. She asked you to do your mating dance for her. That really says nothing about the fact if she likes you or not. If she did just let you go like that, you either socially embarrassed her, or she wasn't into you. That she gave you the courtesy of assuming you might have been an option for her and let you know that doesn't make you anything but an option.





