Getting woman.

[Espada1]

Note: ACCEPTING FEEDBACKS

1. Window of Opportunity

Picking up girls have to do with a lot of surveying and behavior analysis. Questions to asked to yourself is "what does she look like", "what personality do I think she has"..etc, This require minor stalking or I like to term it "Careful observation". You have to be observant to profile a chick. You have to display empathy and good emotional intelligence for this to work.

Get a quick sense of the girl's speech behavior, body language and see what makes her tick and what makes her relaxed. I will go more indepth about this later on in this guide.


First rule is to never go up to random girls. This has a high chance of never succeeding because girls don't like it when a stranger talks to them. It is awkward and girls don't like awkwardness because they like to conform.

So how would you go upon meeting girls?

Well for me, I am still going to school so I have plenty of opportunities especially in classes such as math, reading or science. I would scan out the class and pick the girls with the highest score in the class itself. I like Asian girls and the girls that usually have the highest grades in my classes are Asian girls so it is easy peasy. After that, you have to be "buddy buddies" with them. Start at the interpersonal level by utilizing the good ole' small chat routine. Talk with her, ask some questions and basically just get to know her. You can flirt with her a little but that is sort of risky, but if you do it well you can relieve some of the primary tension associated with meeting someone new.

After you become buddy buddy with her, now is a good time to ask her for help. Just find a way to convey to her that the class is somewhat difficult and it would be best to study together. For me, I would use my charm to make it smooth. Add her into your study buddy list because this is a good way to talk more and to spend time with her. Try to schedule time for study sessions.







2. Mindset

I been going around a lot of threads lately and there is a universal thing women like the most. *intelligence* and *passion*. These two traits are admired heavily by users and just based off of that is what guys should try to aim for.

These two traits heavily mirrored each other as in that you can always fake intelligence by having a passion for education. What this means, is that even if you are not too smart, you can always make yourself seem smart by focusing heavily onto your studies. This is what I called the "nerd tactic" because intelligence and passion are what nerds are known for.

Point is, just devote 50-60% of your time studying for your classes to give people the image that you are smart/intelligent.


Second part I want to emphasize is Confidence. This is also a trait is likable for almost all women. What I mean by confidence is think "iron man"/ Tony Stark". In all his movies, especially his recent performance in the Avengers, he is extremely cocky and confident. He is the epitome of a confident, egotistical and charming guy.

Try not to mirror him exactly. Tone it down a level. Girls like confident and funny guys but sometimes egotistical can get on their nerves. Think Tony Stark as a level 5 confident guy; you should be aiming for level 3.


3. Facial expression

Smile often. Don't overdo it but when every time you see a girl, try to do a quick smile while maintaining eye contact. This shows you are confident and approachable.

TO BE CONTINUE...

[Phobia]

Mine goes like this:

Step 1 - be a gentleman.

Step 2 - do yer own thing and respect her own thing.

Step 3 - talk talk talk talk

Step 4 - have dank herbs

I guess step 4 is optional.

Seriously though. A generic guide like this will never work. Women aren't some elusive creature you have to study and plan the capture of. Imo the only secret is making a lot of friends and being a good, friendly person. Yeah you're gonna fail a lot but that's the ****in way she goes. Buck up and try again.

^ The truth. Steps 1-3 is just what it is. There is no secret on how to pick up chicks n get girls.

[Tyrfing]

Hmm. The amount of disrespect in this thread is appalling.

If I see you in real life, it will not be pleasant for you. That's all.

[darknight55]

After you become buddy buddy with her, now is a good time to ask her for help. Just find a way to convey to her that the class is somewhat difficult and it would be best to study together. For me, I would use my charm to make it smooth. Add her into your study buddy list because this is a good way to talk more and to spend time with her. Try to schedule time for study sessions.

[olaph]

Looks like you guys have been overthinking this..

[Kashis]

It never fails to amaze me how positively most women react to being called "miss" in a polite voice. And I don't think anyone will be mad at you, male or female if you casually mention something you sincerely find attractive or interesting about them. I once said to a random female in passing, "you have a lovely scent" and she smiled, said thanks and started rubbing my stomach.


Stick with being sincere and show a genuine interest in the person and you'll do fine.

[birdman16]

Xeno is right.

Women are people, there is no specific guideline for "picking up chicks" every girl thingks diffrently from eachother

An example to Kashis.. I'm sure most women would be flattered but there are some that would just ignore or just.. act like bisshes

Just don't be a fake person. I hate fake people, be yourself.. the worst place to be fake is with online dating.. it's like a job interview, you try to make yourself look as goood as possible "Yar yar, I goto school, I am nice, I am responsible, I gotto the gym 10 times a week yar yar" IN the end.. it's all BS..mostly BS lol don't forget were all humans in the end. no one is perfect and no one is too good for anyone.. even women have **** ups (believe it or not) See that hot chick down the street? She's probably got ton more issues than you.

[Kashis]

An example to Kashis.. I'm sure most women would be flattered but there are some that would just ignore or just.. act like bisshes

But here's the thing, so what if they do ignore you?

A compliment is just a verbal gift and gifts you should give without any intention of receiving one back. It only costs you a mere seconds of your time to send out that probe and see how the person reacts. Don't bother to care about the negative results because if that does happen then you are no better off than you were before you spoke with that person.

It's the ones who do respond positively that you'd be interested in anyway. I say things in a pretty aloof manner most of the time, which most girls seem to like. Try stating things in a offhand, causal way as if you were just pointing out an observation or a fact. Has a bigger impact than flattery most of the time.

[Ronin]

A compliment is a speech act.

An act.

Meant to provoke a reaction.

You yourself said as much.

And don't tell me now that a pretty girl looking at you with a look of complete disgust doesn't have the power to ruin your day...

I can explain the issue that I have with your post;
Say I like to listen to Pearl Jam and Alice in Chains and The Pixies and I tell that to girls and they supposedly tell me that's cool. I wouldn't ever
A) Create a method out of doing that
Tell others to copy my recipie
Have some self-respect...

Looking for things to compliment; That just steals the meaning away entirely.

[Kashis]

A compliment is a speech act.

An act.

Meant to provoke a reaction.

You yourself said as much.

And don't tell me now that a pretty girl looking at you with a look of complete disgust doesn't have the power to ruin your day...

I can explain the issue that I have with your post;
Say I like to listen to Pearl Jam and Alice in Chains and The Pixies and I tell that to girls and they supposedly tell me that's cool. I wouldn't ever
A) Create a method out of doing that
Tell others to copy my recipie
Have some self-respect...

Looking for things to compliment; That just steals the meaning away entirely.

I often compliment females during conversations even ones I have no interest in so it's easier to do and more of a second nature. To me it's just a part of being polite and makes people enjoy talking to you.

When I told that girl I liked the way she smelled, I wasn't even interested in her. It was just the fact that she had a very nice scent that caught my attention. I wasn't expecting her to reward me with groping but I also wasn't complaining about it either.

Compliments are bait. Toss em out in the water and see what you catch.

Oh, I did say that they have to be sincere though. Empty compliments are not going to get you anywhere so I see what you are saying. But if you really do like something about a person you don't need a reason to share that with them is what I mean. The things I say I mean but I often don't mean anything other than what I've said. Women have often taken my compliments to mean I have an interest in them when I don't. To me it's just a part of being friendly and honest.

Pretty much all of my girlfriends approached me so I have never really had to deal with being turned down. A number of them have said they liked me because of things I don't even remember saying about them, because to me they were just those sincere, off hand compliments that I gave with no real intention of anything else than saying something nice about their looks or personality.

From their perspective, they have a guy that has been sweet to them, from mine I have women that are interested in me because of obvious things I point out to them that they seem unaware of.

[Ronin]

Anyways, @ topic:

[itsAmbear]

Anyways, @ topic:

Zefrank is the shit! Seriously love this guy, so glad he's back making videos.

Anyways, like said above. I agree by not looking for a relationship, I swear every time I started dating someone new I wasn't trying to. Less stress when you're not worrying about it too.

[MrTingTing]

Guides like these work, but only for self-confident people. On the other side, self-confident people don't need guides.

[BoomThunda]

Note: ACCEPTING FEEDBACKS

1. Window of Opportunity

Picking up girls have to do with a lot of surveying and behavior analysis. Questions to asked to yourself is "what does she look like", "what personality do I think she has"..etc, This require minor stalking or I like to term it "Careful observation". You have to be observant to profile a chick. You have to display empathy and good emotional intelligence for this to work.

Get a quick sense of the girl's speech behavior, body language and see what makes her tick and what makes her relaxed. I will go more indepth about this later on in this guide.

Bro you've got some serious psychopathic tendencies I'm not even joking. You seriously go around studying people, surveying their mannerisms and whatnot? Also "You have to display empathy" WTF DOES THAT EVEN MEAN!? Seriously bro, you fake emotions? That's pretty sick, for real.

Also,

First rule is to never go up to random girls. This has a high chance of never succeeding because girls don't like it when a stranger talks to them. It is awkward and girls don't like awkwardness because they like to conform.

Yeah but you're kidding though right?

[Espada1]

Bro you've got some serious psychopathic tendencies I'm not even joking. You seriously go around studying people, surveying their mannerisms and whatnot? Also "You have to display empathy" WTF DOES THAT EVEN MEAN!? Seriously bro, you fake emotions? That's pretty sick, for real.

Also,


Yeah but you're kidding though right?

What I mean is that the majority of what people are trying to convey is through their body language than words. Being adept at understanding body languages, facial expressions, emotions can go a long way at understanding people..aka empathy.
You should check this out on google.

FBI agents and Police officers study people all the time. Are they psychopathic people?

There are such occupations as FBI profilers who study people for a living. Are they psychopathic people? I think not.
Understanding body language and emotional intelligence is key for everyday successes.
You have to be observant for this to work.

Just by being WTFBBQ at this already tells me you are not a people's person.

And no, I was not joking. How far would you get if you go up to a chick in a supermarket and tried hitting on her? Probably not very far.

You have to do it in a setting where people are actually there to socialized. Like a bar, a club, school..etc,

It is very creepy to flirt with random girls in places say a street or a bus.

[Espada1]

Whatever man, you and "your friend" seem to have a self-defeatist personality. I don't understand why you think only the man has to worry about sounding awkward. If I have the courage to walk over to her and try to start up a conversation why shouldn't SHE prove her value to ME?

What if she doesn't want to talk to you.

Not a lot of girls would be like.. "hey **** off" or "Get away from me". They probably seem as nice as possible to get away from you.

[Ronin]

why shouldn't SHE prove her value

Yea...
Value...
Because woman are commodities.