So I started seeing this girl and it was going well for a while (3 months) then I found out on of her guy friends was actually her ex boyfriend. Needless to say I wasn't very happy she was still hanging with her ex and on top of that didn't tell me he was her ex. I didn't make a huge deal out of it I asked her to stop seeing her ex (hanging out though I am sure now after all of this it was more than that) when with me, needless to say she flips out and tells me I am a huge control freak. This was the first time I asked her to stop something..wasn't like I said stop hanging out with your friends I asked her to stop hanging out with the guy she was previously having sex with. Things start to sour (mostly from trust issues at this point) and said ex-boyfriend shows up at my place threatening me with physical harm if I don't leave her (it's only been 3 months mind you), so I bring this up with her. I tell her she obviously isn't ready to start a new relationship and needs to settle issues with her past and politely end the relationship. Now I am thinking good that bat shit crazy crap is done with and over time to go bar hopping with the buddies or something. While at the bars I run into her ex-boyfriend (I assume is back into boyfriend status) and he starts a fight with me (no, no Jackie Chan shit here folks) and I end up giving him a bloody nose and a hurt ego at best. So after this I am thinking great this ****ing bat shit crazy crap is gonna follow me for a while now..get a phone call from the ex and she starts screaming at me claiming I attacked him and she called the police. At this point I am beyond confused with this situation the cops arrive at my house and I explain what happened with several witnesses from the bar backing up my story, I decide not to press charges as he got the worst of it (I had a mild black eye that went away a few day later, as he punched me from the side as I was chatting with some friends).

A few months later I run into her and her now again ex-boyfriend had beaten her (the same reason she broke up with him in the first place). She apologizes for everything that went down and I told her I don't want any apologies I just want her to leave me alone. She starts to cry and leaves the store and I am now the new "asshole" around town even though everyone knows the entire story behind it all, and personally I could give less than two shits because she brought it on her self.



and all this started because I simply asked her to stop seeing her ex-boyfriend. So was that request out of line or something? To me it wasn't out of line but I guess if you ask people that your some sort of control freak, asshole, piece of shit.


This is mostly just a rant thread but feel free to throw your two cents in. As I am interested in peoples opinion of the situation.


scorpio