High self-esteemed people. Question.

[Imperidal]

Either your doing good or bad, there always gonna be someone critics/hates it.

Do whatever you like and dont give a shit what others think of you. You CANT satisfy everyone.

Just care with people that care about you.

[Zebracal]

Dress up the way you can, dress up the you are comfortable with, and say the quote "They laugh at me because I'm different and I laugh at them because they are all the same."

[Ronin]

Why is being obnoxious rude and inconsiderate a goal of our society?

Because people thinking in mindsets of "introvert/extrovert" are not very grown up.
Just my 2 cents.

The openness and quality of interaction is always relative and determined by both sides. Hence the idea of how you esteem your position in a relationship is just that an evaluation of the relationships you have, not a reflection on yourself.

There are not "shitty people". If they come out as shitty to everyone else there still will be enough to form their own club of shiftiness. Stop wanting everyone on your team, you cant force it. Be and make your own team.

Low self-esteem comes from exposing yourself to situations where you feel out of place. There isn't even a law on how to change that, because there is no need. Just acknowledge that you are not responsible for everything to work out.

Sad thing is I let this conquer the way I do things, fear of making simple phone calls, fear of talking to authorities over me.

You need to fix this.
It's way more wide spread than you think, many people have this problem and it's something that comes up rarely but can have big consequences.
Do actively confront yourself with making phone calls. Often it's just never really having done anything like that before.
You can pick up your phone, call your mobile operator and ask if you are still having a good voice-plan, or ask your ISP if your internet is really the best option for you. Look up plans and change up to a better one. You'll see it's actually easy to just do it.

[olaph]

The key to high self esteem is to not care what other people may think about you.

[ApocaRUFF]

This life is here for you to live, **** everyone else if they have a problem with it.

AKA: Don't give a shit about the opinion of others. It's easier said than done, though.

[Bad Hamster]

Just make the call. In the beginning I always think by myself "****. What the hell am I going to say? Will they even bother listening?", but as soon as I make the call it goes automaticly.

[$$$]

You should care what other people think of you, to an extent.

[Kamilla]

No matter what you do, there's always gonna be someone who hates it. Maybe they hate your actions, maybe they hate you. There's no way you can get everyone to approve of you (and I'm pretty sure that's not what you're aiming for either).

I had something really important to say, but I got distracted by the advertisements on the sides.. and I completely forgot what I wanted to say. Darn..

I don't know.