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I feel you. I'm the same in a way. I'm so used to talking to women that I kinda forgot how to talk to guys. Like I can easily hold a conversation with a female, but when it comes to guys I don't really know what to say. I guess its why most of my friends to date are women and ive only had 1 new guy friend since my freshman year of college, and hes my barber lol.
Reputation: 267
Man, i always say weird shit when i try to be like serious. But i got no problems on keeping the conversation alive.
Reputation: 10
The trick is finding people with common interests, if you are polar opposites than yeh awkward silence is going to be very common. The more you and the person/people have in common the more ice breakers you have to work with.
Reputation: 110
uhm..I think I led this thread to confusion.. RL convo isn't the real problem (just a tini-weeny-bit though)
I get the idea of masking-on* in terms of RL stuff.. plus the pressure of being on-the-spot helps to find that quick fix (fillers :P)
I was talking about internet-convo.. hence I will quote myself:
Originally Posted by Chiyeon
this is where the problem starts. It's hard having normal convo with people that I have common interest w/
normal in-terms of what they are doing, and so on.. just really normal*
yknow how normal persons talk.
Reputation: 106
costs real money + time to develop life skills. u cannot develop them in front of pc.
but.. u can just work in computers+ gaming if u stay in front of pc if u work hard.
Reputation: 480
Life skills?
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look at it this way. you could make a living as a brilliant games reporter and lock yourself with your pc all day and just eat pizza and soda. but doing that you will die of some really bad health thingy. so like skills is not just about working, but having a rounded life and fitting into society. some people never fit well. many people have to work at those life skills.
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