FFXIV. I have played both to cap and have always came back to FFXIV. GW2 never has any "real" updates. They had that one in back in may or june when the megaserver was created. I don't consider living story an update because none of it is permanent. Give the new FFXIV trial a shot and check it out. It's a good game and like some have said, really easy to get in to. Yes, the end game is a lot of dungeon grinding, but most of those people repeat the same dungeon over and over only because that particular dungeon is quickest to finish. Mix it up, take your time, enjoy yourself. There is actually other things to do. Oh and FFXIV's updates are very frequent, very large, and permanent most of all. None of that temporary garbage GW2 does.