a question about independence :life question:
Hallo guys i got a question. As you all know i am 24 years of age. I am starting to get at a point in mine life that i want to be independent. I told my actt team that i am ready to move towards this goal.
I am sick of depending on others but i really have no idea on what to do. I lack money and i lack work and social skills to really do much. But i am ready to move on with my life. I am getting more and more depressed sitting in this one room like i have done for the majority of my life.
Plus i want to live on my own and in return i hope to meet my soulmate. I need a mate i am getting more and more lonely and is leading me to more and more deep sadness.
But in truth i have no idea to how to even begin. Get a job yea i know :read above: i am right now trying to figure out how to make a little side money. I can work on my bead work and see if this guy i know will sale at his store and i cut him a little bit in on the money i might would make.
But as you all know i want to do music with my life. I have very little passions in life so thats the only major goal i have as of now.
So how would i go about becoming independent over a span of time? I still will need to help fam. Grandmum is going blind and i will never let her go hungry same with any one really. So i gotta add that in as well on expanse. Food cost a damn ton in life and i would need to feed my self. And her even if i lived on my own which is another goal. As above i am ready to move on with my life. Before it slips away and ive done nothing with it.
Like my papa tells me go after my goals and don't screw up my life like he did his. So i need some help here. Thank you guys and gals a ton.
-duby the gatekeeper.
Originally Posted by Phanein
