a question about independence :life question:

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Hallo guys i got a question. As you all know i am 24 years of age. I am starting to get at a point in mine life that i want to be independent. I told my actt team that i am ready to move towards this goal.

I am sick of depending on others but i really have no idea on what to do. I lack money and i lack work and social skills to really do much. But i am ready to move on with my life. I am getting more and more depressed sitting in this one room like i have done for the majority of my life.

Plus i want to live on my own and in return i hope to meet my soulmate. I need a mate i am getting more and more lonely and is leading me to more and more deep sadness.

But in truth i have no idea to how to even begin. Get a job yea i know :read above: i am right now trying to figure out how to make a little side money. I can work on my bead work and see if this guy i know will sale at his store and i cut him a little bit in on the money i might would make.

But as you all know i want to do music with my life. I have very little passions in life so thats the only major goal i have as of now.

So how would i go about becoming independent over a span of time? I still will need to help fam. Grandmum is going blind and i will never let her go hungry same with any one really. So i gotta add that in as well on expanse. Food cost a damn ton in life and i would need to feed my self. And her even if i lived on my own which is another goal. As above i am ready to move on with my life. Before it slips away and ive done nothing with it.

Like my papa tells me go after my goals and don't screw up my life like he did his. So i need some help here. Thank you guys and gals a ton.

-duby the gatekeeper.

[Phanein]

inb4lock

I'm not sure how much your beads will bring in. Maybe starting an etsy would be a good idea too. Just go for any job you can right now. My first job when I got to maryland was fast food. We all have to start somewhere.

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inb4lock

I'm not sure how much your beads will bring in. Maybe starting an etsy would be a good idea too. Just go for any job you can right now. My first job when I got to maryland was fast food. We all have to start somewhere.

Why would they lock this thread? I am just wondering a simple question.....

[Phanein]

Why would they lock this thread? I am just wondering a simple question.....

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Well thanks man for the reply. I am not very picky but i will never work fast food. I will see what other things i can do. Me and pops was talking about some things will see how life roles her cards of fate on that as well.

[Kashis]

And if you have any restaraunts in your area, (which there are, I checked) you can apply to those for work. And if any of them serve alcohol in them, see if you can get a job working in that area, because bartending can make you some pretty solid money at the right spots.

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Another reason you need a car because eventually, you are going to need to commute or relocate to a bigger city if you want better pay and/or more opportunities. You are not that far from R****** and your city is located near a major highway that will make the commute quicker, should you go down that route.

[thankyou]

And if you have any restaraunts in your area, (which there are, I checked) you can apply to those for work. And if any of them serve alcohol in them, see if you can get a job working in that area, because bartending can make you some pretty solid money at the right spots.

Edit:

Another reason you need a car because eventually, you are going to need to commute or relocate to a bigger city if you want better pay and/or more opportunities. You are not that far from R****** and your city is located near a major highway that will make the commute quicker, should you go down that route.

Yep quite a few of them. And im not sure if i would live in a big city. And im not sure if any of the food places here have beer? do steak places have them?