No i think thats a GOOD father, Hes teaching him responsiblity, "i am going to work you so hard that you will have to work twice as hard" hes giveing him no choice but to work, and thats a pritty good father. Hes prepaireing him the life, theres distractions in life, and you get more than one assinment in college, so tell him that his father is teaching him to manage multipul task. I think i will do that when i have kids, cuz it doesnt matter how much they hate or love you, because in the end they will be ready... and see what you have done for them