When is the right time to say it..

[FireStar]

This is from my personal experience.

I started saying i love you when my i know i actually did love the girl, it was about 3 weeks into the relationship, and guess what? she said i love you back. Now, when i talk to her on the phone everyday, and we expressed our feelings like every 5 minutes, and its the best thing ever because i know she actually meant it. Not just saying it just to make me happy but because thats what she felt.

So my advice is just go ahead, express your feelings to her, theres basically nothing to lose. If she doesn't respond to your liking, maybe you should re-evaluate your relationship or give it some more time. Oh and make sure you tell her what you love about her, girls love compliments.

It's never too soon to express your feelings but make sure you are absolutely sure about it. Once you let it slip, it'll be more easier each time.

Also, i did know a guy who said "i love you" to the girl that he was dating just for sex, and when she got too attached, he freaked out. People like him are bastards and i hope you are not one of them.

[Sandman53]

I think the actual meaning of "I love you" has been somewhat deluted. From my own experience it's not something you gain after 3 weeks. What most people feel is just an attraction towards one another... usually a crush, or some type of lust.

Love really can't be described. But it's one of those things where if you REALLY do love someone... you'll know it. I think it's one of those things you say to a girl you could see yourself staying together with for a long time. So highschool "love" is not usually actual love since very few people make it out of highschool together...

The best advice anyone can give you is to just follow your heart.

[Dedinho]

I think the actual meaning of "I love you" has been somewhat deluted. From my own experience it's not something you gain after 3 weeks. What most people feel is just an attraction towards one another... usually a crush, or some type of lust.

Love really can't be described. But it's one of those things where if you REALLY do love someone... you'll know it. I think it's one of those things you say to a girl you could see yourself staying together with for a long time. So highschool "love" is not usually actual love since very few people make it out of highschool together...

The best advice anyone can give you is to just follow your heart.

Yeah, exactly Sandman..i mean i am not in highschool anymore.. but she is.. but my mum and dad have a 3 year gap in thee age and they have been married for 25 year's.
I do want to be with her forever, i am at that age were i can see myself with her for a long period of time and the only thing destroying it is something bad, i can see myself being with her til the end..
She is young..(not showing age) but you kind of get the idea from when i brought my mum and dad up as an example..
She is the type of person to stick to a relationship.. her only boyfriend cheated on her and it took her a REAL long time to get over it.. so she isn't one of those people who just play around and don't take it serious..

I don't kow really it's hard to explain, just looking into her eye's.. all the small thing's you know.. it's just..ugh.. i know i am ready.. i am just scared because i want her to be aswell.