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    Default For you MATURED people..I just want to share my story..

    Here, it's GMT+8, 9:59 pm, July 12, 2007..

    For 7 straight years..She has been one of my closest friend (is my grammar right?)..and for a while now, I just noticed that I like her..alot..(some of you may know what my problem is, because as far as I remember, I posted a thread about "Getting out of the Friend Zone, going to the Girlfriend/Boyfriend zone")..the time above..is the time that she told me that..

    "I dont think you can take our friendship..to a higher level.."

    But before that, I told and promised her, that no matter what happens, I'm here for her, and that we will still be friends..and now..it's like..I'm crying..this is the first time, I liked someone, SOOOOOO much...I told her, "Dont be afraid to tell me that I have no chance to be with you.."..this is just too much..I mean, 7 years straight, no feelings, just REALLY close friends, then there's just this one time that I went out with her because of her problem..then POOF..there goes the feeling..this is something..god damn it..biggest promise I ever made...

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    She's got a boyfriend? I'ma reply.

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    She doesn't have one..but..she has some mutual understanding with someone else..

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    Aww.. mutual understanding huh? As in, they called up each other and meet up frequently? Pardon me, just woke up to check out this site..

    And what's your age? << Important =)

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    Quote Originally Posted by BooNeZ View Post
    She doesn't have one..but..she has some mutual understanding with someone else..
    that right there tells u... u had ur chance roflll , idk go ask dr phil,most of us are only kids

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    Pro tip: friends-to-boy/girl friends doesn't work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stabkiller0 View Post
    No sorry this isn't a Hollywood romantic movie or some Sitcom.

    Same thing happened to me once. I was friends with a neighbor. I liked her alot. I considered asking her out but then I found out she was "with" someone.


    Just try not to think about it too much and put a bigger focus into your life
    nevermind, i just remembered i went out with one of the perttiest blonde girl, blue eyes, for one day, then she said "i dont think this is going to work out", i was "MEHHHHH"

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    I feel the same way about the girl i like a ton, but I dont want to jeaporadize a possible friendship for a possible short relationship...

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    wow this situation is sorta the same as mine except i didnt know my friend so long me and her knew each other for like 2 years and i like her alot too but she probably stilll wants to be friends and i asked her out before and she no and it risked each others friendship we didnt talk for a year and now were friends again i hate the feelling bonez hate it but stay friends dont let it be a good friendship and take it from there wow never knew this was gonna be on a onrpg kind of forum lol but ohwell

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    Hmm...seems this problem is everywhere.

    I know of around ten people in real life with the same problem, including myself...

    Really, I don't know what to tell you. Or, more appropriately, I don't know HOW to tell you...but I might as well just say it. You. Are. Screwed. She's already blatantly stated that she doesn't have an interest in you, and unless you're both young, there's no way you can change her mind. Because, as Khanstruct said, nothing is set in stone at this point.

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    Best thing you can do is be there for her for whatever happens in her life.

    If you really do like this girl, than you will have to make some sacrifices to ensure her happiness. And in the long run being her friend may work out better than you think.

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    Quote Originally Posted by soe1 View Post
    pfff okay player..................................
    1) Just fired one of my friends

    2) Started liking emily *name of the girl who i pimpaged*

    3) Everyone started noticing me pimpage-ing

    4) ariana gets jealous and starts talking about threesome

    5) Emily finds a new boy friend

    6) but i say, "come kiss charlie murphie"

    7) Emilys new boy friend goes liek "im rick james btich"

    8) but i say, "come kiss charlie murphie"

    9) I get a nice long kiss the day before her boyfriend comes back (wasnt he on vocation?)

    10) Meh you know fist to fist (wtF?)
    __
    not everyones a nerd here and 12 years old, we maybe old ACTING like 12 yr olds or shall i speak for myself?

    1) I'm not a pimp or want to be a pimp

    2)Don't need to explain

    3)No I mean people noticed me flirting with her a lot

    4) meh forget it

    10) FIGHT OK? I didn't think you wouldn't understand that...


    You sound like your 12 and vandalizing? Are you some kind of pro tagger? Seriously atleast true graffiti artists know where to tag and where it's legal, vandalizing someones home is not cool.

    o I forgot 9 since I didn't bother reading after 4) The day before he came BACK FROM VACATION... Anymore questions? I'll be glad to answer them but don't come at me with your bull shit

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