Can you say something negative to someones mother or let us say your Fan?
You wouldn't say to someone who happens to hear your conversation about his GF with all the negative *toot* in your conversation and say,
hey dude! where just talking about your GF.
Also, why can't people avoid specific things? You could just say "as some games" and not actually say the significant thing. That is more formal.
If you say something negative on a specific thing then it is actually bashing! Negative sides must be more general and positive must be specific although you can be general and humble.
I hope this is not too much to understand on an average mind
peace Bro! You know this is for you know who and that's not you
