1) is the PvP good? If you can level, get yourself a good pvp clan-YES.
2) is it a grindfest? Even more of a yes.
3) what is the level cap? 80 I think.
4) are the graphics good? Awesome.
5) is there a dungeon/instance/party type of thing you can do? (just wondering) Every 9th level (19, 29, 39) you have to do one which can yield very good benefits, but I don't like them.
6) Are the system requirements high? IDK, I imagine you could check on the site.
7) are there factions/enemy factions/races/enemy races in this game? There are guilds which decide wether or not to ally with each other (user controlled). Races work together. There is territory war in which guilds will fight over territories for control.
8) Are there capital cities/race specific cities in this game? There are capitals per every race and cities for the general population. Other races can still visit anothe rraces capital.
9) is there a cash shop or member services? Yes.
10) its f2p right? Yes.
11) are servers permanent? like if you make a guy on a certain server he is stuck on that server, and to play on another server you would need to make a totaly different guy? (if there are servers) Yes.

12) how many chars per server are you able to make? ( if there are servers). I think like 4 or 5.

13) how do the guild vs guild wars work? ive only played games with faction wars not guild wars ? Here's a guide: http://www.perfectworld.com.my/gamei...le_warring.asp