Help. (Typical relationship problem thread.)

[Xynh]

Before we start, I just want to say;
I know this is a gaming forum, and I know the average user is of the early teenage years, but I'm directing this to the more mature audience in OnRPG. I wanted to release some stress some how, and I guess I can tell you guys. I dunno if this will make me feel any better, but **** it.

Oh and I know "there are more fishes in the sea", and all that, so please..

Keep this in mind:
Me - Me.
Friend - A friend.
Kelly - My (ex)girlfriend.
Van - My good friend.
Jeremy - Kelly's ex-boyfriend; also Van's current boyfriend.

Anyways, I'll just show you a convo about my current situation:
Me (11:27:02 PM): can you keep a major secret?
[COLOR="#0000ff"]Friend (11:27:12 PM): another one?[/COLO

[mysteryguy]

i dont wanna read that much. summarize plz?

if this is a typical relationship stuff, then just do what a typical person would do.

[Xynh]

i dont wanna read that much. summarize plz?

if this is a typical relationship stuff, then just do what a typical person would do.

I don't want people who are lazy to read, to give me advice.
Thanks though.

[daroth]

is van a guy?

[Xynh]

Van is a female.
And I'm straight.

[Deselin]

No offense, but if you broke up with her because she had feelings for another guy, then I'd say you truly don't love her. The same thing happened to my friend about a month ago, but he didn't give up on her and now he's trying to win her back with everything he can.

Buuut...I guess I can give you some basic advice. Why don't you like Jeremy? Is it because of how he dated Kelly, and she still has feeling for him, or another reason? I need to know that before I can evaluate things completely.

Also, do you want Van to be more than a friend, or do you just see her as a friend?