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    Default I need some help

    Hey I know ONRPG isn't the best place to go but I'm in some need of help. It's hard to word without sounding like a dramakid. I've finally gotten over my addiction to computer games/ mmo's and am kinda getting a social life back. I got a girlfriend who doesn't love me but kinda likes me still after a month. I recently got back into WoW (private servers >_>) and am kinda losing what little social life I had gotten back....

    What I am trying to ask is what do you think I should devote my time to? Social life is nice and all but it's highschool, I'll never see these people again nor do I like them. I really like my girlfriend but she isn't really helping keep the relationship working... she just kinda likes to be around me and thats about it. More like a goodfriend Games are fun and easy to lose yourself in and they keep me chilled (ADD, OCD, other issues as well). They also keep me from stressing out or over analyzing every little thing. I can't decide which one will be better off to devote my time and interest into. Right now music is my only reprieve from stresses and whatnot but I'm looking for a little more =/

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    Well it seems we've been having nice chats today haha so i'll help you out here.

    It truly depends on which matters more to you, if your social life consists of dicks you wont want to remember and a girlfriend who doesn't care for you, than go for the games, it may sound ridiculous but you'll get a lot more enjoyment doing that than hanging with people you feel awkward around or hate in general.

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    er..do what you wanna do. or hang around people that share the same interests as you. and about the girlfriend, break up and treat her as a good friend. no point holding on to a relationship without a future

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    Aight... guess I'm off to search for what i love most according to jester. And yeah we have been having good chats drawnzer (nice new profile pic btw :P) My friends are assholes and I don't like being around them, I love spending time with my GF but yeah i don't see a future with us. Games are great but they also have their shortcomings...

    I'll just stay up all tonight i guess. I get a lot of thinking done when I don't sleep over 3 days =/ I don't think im an insomniac but i might be o.O

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ithian View Post
    Aight... guess I'm off to search for what i love most according to jester
    Don't listen to me you damn idiot. That was the whole point of what I said.

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    No what you said is "do you want you want. if you don't know what that is you haven't found what you want yet". Nothing about doing things for yourself o.O

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    D:<


    Ok, listen to me. You'll end up having toothpaste on your disk.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheJESTERJ View Post
    D:<


    Ok, listen to me. You'll end up having toothpaste on your disk.
    o.O... Listening. (JK) I"d rather not... all we've got is this extra strong stuff i'd burn like hell. >_>

    Yeah I guess I just need to figure out what is best for me. Reading manga for 8 hours straight usually chills me down enough and gives me time to think. (no sleep ftw)

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    Get your sorry a$$ back into the game where you belong!

    Games are the best time waster you will regret when your middle aged and lost all your self opinions.

    Addiction is confidence entering the body, it is what you will do, and what you do best. Somehow its easier to be a famous gamer and get sponsors, than be a famous drunk addicted to all forms of alcohol and get sponsors. But your not addicted to alcohol so your not in that league.

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    o.O Alright then which game to play? Right now I've just been playing WoW with my girlfriend but that sh!t got boring a year ago =/ Only reason I play it is because i enjoyed spending time with her, but recently it just seems like she's either pissed or bored 100% of the time (no it's not that time of the month. if you really wanna know that stopped last week)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ithian View Post
    o.O Alright then which game to play? Right now I've just been playing WoW with my girlfriend but that sh!t got boring a year ago =/ Only reason I play it is because i enjoyed spending time with her, but recently it just seems like she's either pissed or bored 100% of the time (no it's not that time of the month. if you really wanna know that stopped last week)
    Then find a game you like then play it. Stop wasting your time for other people and do what you like for once.

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    I do what i want all night. Read manga and make myself feel good if you know what i mean ^.-

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