I say be a ****ing man with balls and leave your hair the way it is, don't take advise of scene crap or whatever, the more you try to straighten your hair the more you will lose in time, yeah you will look "cool" right now, but I don't think you wanna be bald when you are in your mid 20's-30 right?, I've seen LOTS of bald people and stupid kiddies that developed alopecia ariata in the hospital thanks to these idiotic "scene" hair ideas

my best suggestion it's that instead of taking "scene" ideas from ANYONE in any forums, or any pre-pusbescent kid go to your nearest hair saloon and talk with your hair stylist for the best possible advise, they are the experts after all, they know what type of shampoo to use, what kind of gel to maintain your hair, and the best cut for your hair as it is